REAPing

Today I ran 9 miles, and it hurt. A lot. I am in training for the Women's Half Marathon taking place in Nashville in September. My runs get longer every week. I do really well the first 5 miles and then the pain kicks in.
Running is a spiritual experience for me. I usually listen to music unless I have a running partner to chat with. Music helps me set a good pace and stick with it. I have learned a lot of really great songs this way, and had amazing times of worship with the Lord. Sometimes, however, the music is just background for my thoughts. Today, that was the case.
After praying for all the most pressing of requests floating around in my mind, I hit mile 5.  The dreaded mile 5.  I was hurting. I approached my house where my water bottle was waiting for me. Under it was a sweet note from my husband/trainer. Today I ran for him. He has always been a runner. The entire 30 years I have known him he has run. He loves it. He runs for exercise, for worship, for joy. He learned to love God's creation through running. Before I left he told me he wished he could run with me. I felt his pain. We have switched places. He can no longer run due to arthritis in his hip, and I have taken up running with his help. I cannot call myself a runner like him, because I do not love it like he does. Not yet anyway.
The sweet note he left me reminded me of his pain. Pain from arthritis and pain in the heart that he can no longer run. I was feeling pain, too, and struggling with it. This is the point in running where I want to give up. I don't like pain. I have a hard time working through it. I need his (Brad's) voice telling me I can do it. He is a great encourager.
I didn't have my sweet husband by my side, but I did have the Lord. I was so grateful He reminded me of His Words that I read today from the REAP journal while I was in the midst of my struggle. David's Psalms are so full of cries to the Lord while he was struggling. Here are some of the precious Words of the Lord that comforted me, carried me even.

But the salvation of the righteous is from the Lord; He is their strength in time of trouble.
Psalm 37:39

Do not forsake me, O my God, do not be far from me! Make haste to help me, O Lord my salvation. Psalm 38:21-22

He set my feet upon a rock making my footsteps firm. Psalm 40:2a

I completed all 9 miles!! It was about so much more than a physical challenge. It was mental and spiritual. When I let God into all my daily activities,whether they are difficult or not, He does incredible things.
I'm so grateful for a loving God who cares about my every step.


So happy to be "REAPing" with you! Looking forward to hearing how you have benefited from being in God's Word daily.

See you Wednesday!
Love,
barb

Advice From a Tree

"YOU ARE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN BECOMING"

The 30 Day Challenge??  

How many of you are in?

I commit to spend time with the Lord in His Word every day for the next 30 days.

WOW... this week's homework is so so good!  I can't wait to hear where the Lord is stretching you and teaching you concerning "media" and your thoughts on God's plan for your future!

As a re-cap... we finished studying the book of Ephesians last week.  

Who can remember the pieces of the armor?  (hint:  Ephesians 6)  

For homework this week we are reading chapters 11 & 12 in "Lies" 

and doing chapters 8 & 9 in the companion guide.  

I know that the start of high school is just days away.  I also know that you are wrestling with fear of the unknown and excitement at beginning a brand new chapter of life!  I am praying for you, dear girls as you journey into this next season.  Paul writes in Ephesians 6,

"Be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of His might."

Details about this Wednesday...

1. We are back at Barb's house on Wednesday from 4-6pm.  

2. Taco Bar, YUMMY YUMMY~  Barb and I are serving a Taco Bar Wednesday night during Bible Study.  We will provide the meat and tortillas and drinks.  We need you to bring the fixings.

 

Things we will need:

Shredded Lettuce

Shredded Cheese

Chopped Tomatoes

Chopped Green Onions

Sour Cream

Chips and Salsa

Dessert

3. Barb and I will drive the girls to Girl's Night Out at FSM at 6:30pm.  You will need to have your parents pick you up at Fellowship at 8:00pm.  

I look forward to seeing you all on Wednesday!  

Love you!

Jessica

**call me if you have questions about Wednesday! 496-8143

Olympic LOVE!!

I don't know about you girls, but I have had a hard time this weekend devoting time to my study!  I have been so engaged with Team USA!  I have enjoyed cheering with my family and crying tears of joy and defeat as those amazing athletes WOW me over and over!

BIG NEWS..... 

We are meeting this Wednesday, August 1st 

at my house instead of Barb's.  

My address is:

100 Fairmont Drive

Franklin, TN 37064

615-496-8143

***park in the driveway and come in the back door...you are all back door friends!

As a reminder, our homework for this week is to mark Ephesians 6, read chapters 9 & 10 in "Lies" and do weeks 6 & 7 in the companion guide.  Don't lose heart at the work.  Your diligence will pay off and your heart and mind will be wiser and ready for battle, young warrior princesses!

I am going multi-colored for our snack colors in support of the Olympics.  I am also opening up the table to you girls... if you are feeling creative and colorful, go ahead and bring something fun to share!

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.  Put on the whole armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes.  Ephesians 6:10-11

Love you,
Jessica

Greater love has no one...

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.  You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. John 15:13-15


This week we are going to talk about relationships......friendships!   We have spent time talking about how important our friends are to us, and what it means to be a good friend. 
Are you Jesus' friend?  Read the verse about again and see what you must "do" to be His friend.  "Do what I command" = "obey." There's that word again. It keeps popping up. It must be important.   I am looking forward to shedding light on the Truth of what our relationships should look like with each other and with Jesus! 


The homework for this week is to read and mark Ephesians 5. 
Also, read Chapter 8 in your book and work through week 5 in the Companion Guide. 


Can't wait to see you! 


Love, 
barb

"Therefore, laying aside falsehood, speak Truth, each one of you, with his neighbor, for we are members of one another." Ephesians 4:25

As I was working through Ephesians 4 this morning and marking the text, this verse stood out to me. I thought of our group and how we have grown to Trust each other. We no longer need to be guarded and withhold our hearts, because we have learned to Trust each other. Truth and Trust go together. Because we Trust God with our hearts we can be Truthful with each other. In fact, we must be Truthful. I also love that this verse says we are members of one another. That is a beautiful thing. We belong because of Christ. He makes sure we are never alone in His promise to us. On top of that He has given us each other. A bonus group of like-minded hearts to share and grow with. We are blessed to have such a loving God and a beautiful group of friends to walk with.

This week we are marking Ephesians 4. Be sure and mark every reference to God, Jesus, Spirit, redemption and walk.

In LYWB we are reading Chapter 7 in the book and doing week four in the Companion Guide.

Looking forward to seeing you on Wednesday at my place.

Love,
barb

2 truths and a lie...

This past week I was given an opportunity to speak TRUTH to an old friend of mine.  I wasn't that excited to be given that opportunity because I knew that I was walking into a minefield.  But out of a deep love for Jesus and His Truth, I knew that He would give me the words and wisdom to share His Gospel Truth again with my friend.  It was messy.  It was hard.  I don't think she heard...but I was obedient.

20 years ago this past March I met my friend.  We met here in Nashville and instantly had a special heart connection.  We decided to become roommates the following semester at Belmont University.  From then on we were inseparable.  She was like a sister to me.  We both loved Jesus.  We laughed a lot.  We talked into the night more than I can count.  We knew each other so well...we could almost guess what each other was gonna say next.  Years went by and our friendship had it's ups and downs.  Through any conflict we had the common bond of Jesus.  We prayed with each other throughout our college years and continued to pursue Christ together for the next 15 years.  I was in her wedding.  I was in the room when her second baby was delivered.  She stayed with me in the hospital when I was so sick after my 5th baby, Isaiah, was born.  We did life together.

7 years ago she and her family moved to Texas to be closer to her extended family.  Her family was/is far away from the Lord and live a very worldly lifestyle.  She and her husband wanted to move closer to them so they could minister and show them the love of Jesus.  Slowly, the worldly influence of her family and friends drew her heart and mind away from the Lord.  Several years ago she started asking lots of questions about her faith and along with questioning, she started to really doubt the existence of Jesus Christ.  At first, she would bring her questions and doubts to me.  We would talk and pray and sometimes fight and almost always cry over these changes in her heart.  Over time, however, she stopped talking to me about her struggles.

We have hardly spoken these past 2 years.  Last week she came into town and we had dinner together.  Over dinner she started telling me about her 'spiritual' journey.  She told me about how she had figured out that there is more than one pathway to God.  She had been on one pathway in the early years of our friendship, but now she has much more freedom in this new 'spiritual' pathway.  I couldn't keep quiet.  I told her that she was believing a lie.  I reminded her of the TRUTH of the Gospel and that God's Word says that "I am the way, the truth, and the life.  No one comes to the Father except through me."(John 14:6)  There is one pathway.  His name is Jesus.  He died on the cross for you and me.  His death and His blood payed the penalty of our sin.

Her heart was closed to my words.  She was not interested in hearing any of it.

She left town and went back to Texas.  I have no idea what the future holds for her or our friendship.  I do know that I listened to the Lord and spoke His Truth over her.  He is one who is the heart changer...not me.  He is relentless in His pursuit of us!  I just need to be willing to listen and to obey.  Even when it is hard.  Even when I didn't think I could stand it a second longer.  Even when I knew my words were hitting the brick wall in front of me.

Are you willing to stand up and speak against the lies of the enemy?  What if it costs you a friendship?

Girls, it doesn't get easier as you get older... I almost caved several times in my conversation.  Only by the grace and mercy of Jesus was I able to keep breathing and talking in those hard moments.  To Him be the glory forever and ever!

I look forward to seeing your lovely faces on Wednesday afternoon at 4:00pm!

Jessica

Hey Sweet Girls!
Hope you are getting lots of time in the sunshine these summer days! I wanted to remind you of your homework. We are reading Chapters 4 and 5 in your book and doing week 2 and 3 in your Companion Guide. I know that is a lot, but this week we are meeting at the pool!! Yeah! So, get your suit on and bring your towel to:

1105 Deep Woods Trail
Brentwood TN 37027

We will keep our same time 4-6pm. Kristina is bringing snacks!   We will be off the following week to celebrate the 4th with our families.  

Please pray for Jess, Maddy, Millie, Okland, Claire and myself who are serving at e-camp this week. We have over 100 campers coming to worship God! 

Can't wait to see you on Wednesday and enjoy splashing around together!

Love, 

barb

A simple reminder to give thanks for all of God's  creation. His beauty is all around us!
Love you girls!
b

Week #1

Hey Girls!
 Loved seeing your sweet faces this week! Thanks to Tori and McCall, our peer mentors for joining us and sharing their thoughts and wisdom.
     We dove right into Ephesians by reading Chapter 1 and talking about how difficult it must be to live in a town that worships an idol. Talk about going against the grain and standing alone. The Christians at Ephesus had to be so strong. I am encouraged by that, and that God had Paul write them a letter to speak truth to them.  The homework for Ephesians is to mark the word God,  and Jesus and their pronouns on your observation worksheet or in your Bible. Remember how we marked them in 242 by drawing a purple triangle and coloring it in with yellow? Let's do the same thing in Ephesians chapter one. Remember to distinguish Jesus by putting a cross over His name.
      Next we read the introduction to LYWB and took the quiz in our Companion Guide.  That was eye opening. I personally struggle with #1 and #13. I loved hearing your hearts as you shared about your own struggles. The Deceiver is crafty and he hits us all where we are weak. Homework is to read Chapter 1 and work through page 18 in your Companion Guide.  Learning about Eve and how she was deceived is eye opening. Satan has not changed in his tactics. Our job is to learn our enemies was so we don't fall for his lies. Let's get wise together!
      We have a color theme for snacks this summer!! This week was yellow. I am going to keep you guessing about next week. All I am saying is come hungry!
      Leave a comment if you have something to share. I look forward to seeing you all on Wednesday, and hearing from you who went on the Flannel Project!

Love,
barb

Hey There Sweet Friends! 

I am so glad you are here and joining us for a summer dive into God's Word! We are going to be spending time the the book Lies Young Women Believe by Dannah Gresh and Nancy Leigh DeMoss as well as studying Ephesians in God's book!

We know summer is a crazy time full of family vacations and trips, but don't let that stop you from joining us at my house on Wednesday's from 4-6, or right here! You will never regret spending time in God's Word, and in fellowship with friends! Have I talked you into it yet?! I hope so. Please come this Wednesday, I have planned some yummy treats you won't want to miss! 

Here is a taste of what we will be talking about......

And you will know the Truth and the Truth will  make you free.

John 8:32

"Back in the  garden, Eve met an imposter with a diabolical agenda. He wanted Eve to become his slave by rejecting God and His purposes for her life. The serpent craftily asked,
"Did God actually say, ' You shall not eat of any tree in the garden?'" (Genesis 3:1b) That's not exactly what God had said, but it certainly sounded similar. God had told Adam (and Eve) they couldn't eat from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. Satan used a clever combination of half-truths and falsehoods posed as Truth. He began by planting doubts in Eve's mind about what God had actually said.... He wanted her to turn her back on God, to reject His Truth, and to believe his carefully crafted lies.... and she did. And that's exactly what the great imposter wants you to do."

Lies Young Women Believe p. 22

Come and let's learn together what life looks like when we really believe the Truth!

Love ya'll

barb